Here is a quick explanation as to why Kev and I went to Dr. Hofmann, the fertility doctor. I realized after you guys started asking questions that only Sonya, maybe Lura know the story. We have told so many people and don't hide any of it so I just assume everyone knows. Kevin had cancer at the age of 19. He was left basically sterile from the chemo. They stored some sperm before they started his chemo, but only enough for 2 rounds of artificial insemination , neither of which got me pregnant. We then went through the IVF cycle and only got 3 eggs to fertilize , they put all 3 back and still no pregnancy. So we started all over, this time 1 egg fertilized. Luckily it was a perfect little egg, my Ryan. We tried again when Ryan was about 3, they got lots of eggs again but not one fertilized. SO no pregnancy AGAIN! We are happy with our little miracle. We know that the odds are and were against us ever getting pregnant, they had to use a new procedure that had only been done once before to get us Ryan. He was a true miracle. As well as the miracles that saved Kevin's life, so we don't expect another one. Don't get me wrong I would love to have another bundle of joy but if it doesn't ever happen, I will be happy. It is a lot to put us through as well as Ryan, oh and the expense is way up there. SO there is the shortest version I could give you all. Any more questions let me know. It really doesn't bother me. I wish other people were more opened about it, more people would get help.